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wiping da grin off our faces...




well, its really simple, a 23 year old guy who rapped like DMX and had one of the most culturally artistic videos in the nigerian music industry, passed on yesterday. He had a car accident, broke several critical bones (reportedly including his jaw), and slipped into a coma for days. i know for a fact that he was just getting famous and had a few really good gigs lined up before this happened.

so, just to say my own farewell to the man, who just began his climb and became another reason for those of us alive to value the moment. a grim reminder that somehow, no matter how smooth things get, it could all end just like that.

goodnight Mr. Da Grin, there's certainly no grin on our faces right now.

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